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the trees made me think of it...

Posted on Mar 19th, 2008 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

i was driving along one of the single-lane roads this morning and was struck by the beauty of the trees in a field. it’s not a particularly well-loved bit of land; it’s been cleared and... More »

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What would you like to untangle?

Posted on Feb 21st, 2008 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

gender relations, unquestionably! so many people are impacted by various cultural, religious, or familial slants on how women and men should be... there are all these expectations about what it means to be a woman... More »

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Would you recommend your job to someone else?

Posted on Jan 10th, 2008 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

yeah, sure, if they really like children. it's wonderful to be a mother. it's also "the toughest job you'll ever love"...(apologies to whichever branch of the armed forces uses that one.) i never had a... More »

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How do you define integrity?

Posted on Jan 7th, 2008 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

integrity is the state of being in harmony with one's values. first, you define those values; that means deciding what you personally believe in, what you believe to be worthy of your soul's greatest efforts.... More »

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Could you do what you're doing now for the rest of your life?

Posted on Oct 26th, 2007 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

yes, absolutely, if the universe saw fit to finance it! right now, i'm still technically a stay-at-home mom, which is the way i like it. but i'm a post-divorce, crappy settlement stay-at-home mom, which means... More »

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What's your relationship to your body like?

Posted on Oct 17th, 2007 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

that is an interesting question...does anyone in our media-drenched society, especially women, have a chance to be happy with his or her body easily? i grew up disliking the way i looked. as a child,... More »

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What values shape your life?

Posted on Aug 18th, 2007 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

i thought for a while about the values that inform my life, and i  came up with a whole string of things that are qualities i value, traits i hope to exhibit, wayposts i look... More »

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scary stuff

Posted on Oct 18th, 2006 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

maybe it's the time of year, or maybe it's my approaching birthday, but lately i've been thinking a fair bit about death and things i'm afraid of. death is not actually one of the things... More »

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little things that aren't little

Posted on Sep 24th, 2006 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

everyone has days and weeks when just putting one foot in front of the other to get through life is hard. the good little things that occur during these times aren't so little, really... your... More »

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trust, caution, or something in between?

Posted on Jul 24th, 2006 by nofixedstars : assisted serendipity nofixedstars

soooooo....i am at the philadelphia airport, returning from a trip to canada (great place, by the way), and my cell phone rings. it says 'restricted number', but i answer it anyway like the idiot i... More »

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